17 Ways to Accidentally Offend People Around the World
Traveling the world can be an enriching experience, but cultural norms and etiquette can vary greatly from one country to another. Unintentional offenses can happen when we’re not aware of these differences.
To help you navigate the complexities of international customs, here’s a list of 17 ways you could inadvertently offend people in various countries—and how to avoid these faux pas.
Tipping in Japan
In Japan, tipping is not customary and can sometimes be seen as insulting, as it implies that the service workers require extra money to do their jobs well.
Eating with Your Left Hand in India
In India, the left hand is traditionally considered unclean, so always use your right hand when eating or passing items to others.
Giving a Clock as a Gift in China
In China, giving a clock as a gift is a major taboo because the word for ‘clock’ sounds like the word for ‘death,’ symbolizing the end of a relationship.
Sitting in the Back Seat of a Cab in Australia
In Australia, sitting in the back seat of a cab when you’re riding alone can come off as pretentious; it’s common to ride shotgun instead.
Refusing Food in the Middle East
In the Middle East, refusing food can be seen as rude, as hospitality is a key aspect of the culture. It’s polite to accept and at least try what is offered.
Pointing with Your Index Finger in Malaysia
Pointing with your index finger is considered rude in Malaysia. Instead, use your thumb with your four fingers folded beneath it to gesture or point.
Wearing Shoes Inside a Home in Scandinavian Countries
In many Scandinavian countries, wearing shoes inside someone’s home is seen as disrespectful. Always remove your shoes when entering a private residence.
Giving an Even Number of Flowers in Russia
In Russia, even numbers of flowers are reserved for funerals. Always give an odd number of flowers to avoid implying mourning.
Asking “What Do You Do?” in the Netherlands
In the Netherlands, asking someone about their job right away can be seen as too personal. Instead, engage in more general conversation first.
Finishing Your Plate in China
In China, finishing all the food on your plate can suggest that the host did not provide enough food, so it’s polite to leave a little bit.
Blowing Your Nose in Public in France
In France, blowing your nose in public is considered vulgar, especially at the dining table. Excuse yourself and do so in private if necessary.
Giving a Thumbs-Up in Greece
A thumbs-up gesture can be offensive in Greece, similar to giving the middle finger in other cultures.
Sitting with Your Feet Facing a Person in Arab Countries
In many Arab countries, showing the soles of your feet is seen as disrespectful. Keep your feet flat on the ground and avoid pointing them at people.
Refusing a Drink in Russia
In Russia, it’s customary to accept a drink if offered, especially vodka, as it’s a sign of trust and friendship.
Touching Someone’s Head in Buddhist Countries
In Buddhist countries like Thailand, the head is considered the most sacred part of the body, so never touch someone’s head, even children.
Wearing Camouflage Clothing in Barbados
In Barbados, and some other Caribbean countries, wearing camouflage clothing is illegal as it’s reserved for military personnel.
Saying “No” Directly in Japan
Directly saying “no” can be seen as confrontational in Japan. It’s more polite to use indirect expressions or decline gently to avoid causing offense.
By being aware of these cultural nuances, you can show respect and consideration for local customs, ensuring a more pleasant experience for both you and the people you meet on your travels.
